Friday, June 6, 2008

GRRRRR

I know I havent been on here in a while and I apologize. I really do. Ive just been kind of down lately and havent really wanted to moan and whine to myself about it. But I need to vent so here it is:

This was in a thread talking about infertility and heredity. Most of the women were basically saying that their moms were fertile mytles, but they wonder if back in the line (grandmas and aunts) there werent some others that had problems and maybe there is something to the heredity thing. So then someone posts:

My mum got pregnant very easily. Once on the pill, once using condoms and twice after being steralised.

I am pregnant with my fourth and took 6 months, 2 months, 1 month, and 3 months respectively to fall with them.

My mum was adopted because her adoptive mother tried for years for a baby but never managed it and adopted after about 7 years.

Her birth mother had two babies adopted as well as one she kept so I guess she fell easily too.

I wonder if there is a general link (I know it doesn't automatically follow for everyone)


And I think she's saying that her grandma had problems and she really doesnt so it works both ways and that her mom fell pg eaily so maybe that why she did too. (At least I hope thats what she is saying! I hope she isnt saying that she thinks she has IF problems) But doesnt that seem like a slap in the face to be posting on a TTC board?
Its like:
"All of you are venting because its been months or years and you still cant get pregnant! And look at me, I have four kids and it took me less time to fall pregnant with them collectively than its taking some of you to fall pregnant with #1! MWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAA!"

It just really irked me. And her siggy was full of BF blinkies and ones about her kids ( "You cant scare me, I have 3 kids", etc). Woman! What the hell are you doing on an IF site?! I know some use it for charting, but seriously, it seems like she's being an insensitive bitch for getting on General TTC and throwing in her "advice" on things.

1 comments:

Adrianne said...

Ew.
I'm glad I didn't see that.