Life just isnt fair...

So, pretty much everyone reading this knows about all this. Our friend struggled for so long and finally got her BFP and I think all of us were over the moon for her. Such a sweet person, really genuine and she finally got that blessing. Everything goes along fine then BAM! Gone.
I cant imagine the pain she's going through. I feel utterly sick for her. I feel so upset for her, so sad and so very very angry!
Why does this happen? Why???
So many out there can get pregnant at the drop of a hat, even when they dont want to, even when they use protection, even when they are drug users or drink even when they know they are pregnant or they do everything in their power to get rid of the pregnancy. Then others, that are so very very deserving, have to struggle so hard. They have to wade through the pain and the heartache for so very long seemingly to no avail!!! It isnt right!!!!


Last night DH had some friends over and they were all outside, so I got bored and watched Sex & the City because it was the only thing on. Naturally its the episode where Miranda, who has a "lazy ovary", gets pregnant unexpectedly by some guy that has one testicle AND Charlotte found out she had anti-sperm antibodies.
Ya know, it does make me feel better when I see infertility being addressed on tv shows and when they show that it truly is a struggle, but uhg, it just made me feel like crud too. Just a reminder of all those frustrations and fears.
Though in the show, they did a semi-good job of showing some of the idiotic things people say and how hurtful and ridiculous they are (EX: "Well, cant Miranda just give Charlotte her baby?") so, I guess thats a plus, yes?

Its just so infuriating. I wish it could be just as simple as getting a drivers license or something. Pass a little quiz, congratulations here's your BFP.

*muttering*

I hate rude, self-centered, idiotic bitches.






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GRRRRR

I know I havent been on here in a while and I apologize. I really do. Ive just been kind of down lately and havent really wanted to moan and whine to myself about it. But I need to vent so here it is:

This was in a thread talking about infertility and heredity. Most of the women were basically saying that their moms were fertile mytles, but they wonder if back in the line (grandmas and aunts) there werent some others that had problems and maybe there is something to the heredity thing. So then someone posts:

My mum got pregnant very easily. Once on the pill, once using condoms and twice after being steralised.

I am pregnant with my fourth and took 6 months, 2 months, 1 month, and 3 months respectively to fall with them.

My mum was adopted because her adoptive mother tried for years for a baby but never managed it and adopted after about 7 years.

Her birth mother had two babies adopted as well as one she kept so I guess she fell easily too.

I wonder if there is a general link (I know it doesn't automatically follow for everyone)

And I think she's saying that her grandma had problems and she really doesnt so it works both ways and that her mom fell pg eaily so maybe that why she did too. (At least I hope thats what she is saying! I hope she isnt saying that she thinks she has IF problems) But doesnt that seem like a slap in the face to be posting on a TTC board?
Its like:
"All of you are venting because its been months or years and you still cant get pregnant! And look at me, I have four kids and it took me less time to fall pregnant with them collectively than its taking some of you to fall pregnant with #1! MWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAA!"

It just really irked me. And her siggy was full of BF blinkies and ones about her kids ( "You cant scare me, I have 3 kids", etc). Woman! What the hell are you doing on an IF site?! I know some use it for charting, but seriously, it seems like she's being an insensitive bitch for getting on General TTC and throwing in her "advice" on things.